“The person we believe ourselves to be will always act in a manner consistent with our self image.”  (Brian Tracy, Author, 1944 - )

As previously promised, we’re using the next few posts to revisit some of our favorite contributed articles from some of our favorite professional partners.  The following may indeed be our very favorite of them all.

Contributed by Chasity Furse, our friend at Studio 423 Photography (http://studio423photo.com/), the article features tips and tricks for taking a self portrait.  Chasity brands them the “necessary evil”, and herself admits to shying away from the idea in general, but challenges that we should all be “documenting not only our lives but our selves”. 

And, if anyone would know how best to do so, it’s Chasity.  She’s an amazing photographer AND just an overall spectacular person.  If you haven’t had a chance to check out her portfolio…you must…it really is special.  If you haven’t had the opportunity to work with her…you need to…she is the ultimate talent.  And, if you haven’t yet had a moment to enjoy her fabulous sense of humor…you really should… just read on…

“In a recent converstion with a friend, I was told that I should “post more photos on Facebook”.  I thought it odd because, if you’re my “friend” on Facebook, you are bombarded with endless photos…of my clients, my children, my husband, my extended family, my friends, my travels, and more often than not, endless shots of randomness like a recent one of “Bubble Gum Alley” in Seattle.  As the conversation progressed, it was established that yes, although I have many photos that portray my life, I don’t have many photos of my self.  Sure there’s an occasional shot of me with any of the aforementioned subjects, but rarely is there one single photo of just me. 

So, why is that we really don’t take the time to indulge ourselves and, in this case, other people of interest, with an occasional self portrait?  (This is a rhetorical question.  I don’t care to hear any valid reason or excuse any of you actually have to offer here.)  The truth of the matter is, we are all too wrapped up in our self loathing and obsessive mindsets that dictate to us all of the reasons we should not be photographing ourselves.  Even those rare few who don’t mind having their photo taken alone, without a security object beside them hoping to divert the attention of curious onlookers, still question whether we should share those photos with others.  Too often, they are wondering what “others” might think if they are, in fact, shared with the world.

Regardless what group you fall into, the fact remains that we all should be documenting not only our lives but our selves.  And we should embrace the fact that people actually do and will care what we actually looked like when we occupied the earth!  Really?  Yea, really!  I know it’s a hard concept to wrap your minds around, but I promise I’m not misleading you.

Taking a self portrait is actually quite painless once you’ve let go of all the insane ideas you have about it.  You know, like how much weight you should lose, how much you hate your hair since you cut it all off last summer in an effort to “sass it up a bit”, how your profile is terrible and you should’ve had that nose job in college instead of springing for the tickets to the Stones concert, or how you have nothing to wear…never mind the empty shopping bags neatly tucked away in your closet hoping to be concealed forever from your husband.  Okay, so those are just my excuses but you all know you have your own.

If you own a camera, get it out, along with your owner’s manual, because let’s face it, you obviously will not know how to use the self timer and you’re going to need to figure that out first.  Make sure you have some decent natural light by sitting in a room with a window or two.  Situate yourself somewhere you are comfortable, and mount your camera on a tripod (or a stack of Vogue…or Maxim if you’re a guy), and press the shutter button.  It’s really that easy.  Don’t spend hours perfecting it.  I mean, make sure you don’t have anything in your teeth and don’t flaunt your “Something About Mary” hair; but, don’t take all day to get yourself ready.  Now, upload that puppy to your photo lab of choice and print out at least one (we’re starting small here).  Take it, mat it, and stick it in a frame.  Then, put it by your bed.  Look at it every night before you go to sleep, and remind yourself that you are an interesting, worthwhile being that deserves to be seen and not only heard.  After you’ve convinced yourself, you can reprint it or post it online for the world to see.  Again, they really do care.  They like you, and they think you rock!  Plus, they’ll be totally jealous that you actually had the nerve to do it.

Lastly, for those of you who are really digging the self portrait idea and want to step it up a bit, contact your favorite professional photographer (I happen to know a great one!), and schedule a session.  They really can be fun.  You will never regret it; and, most importantly, the people in your life will be forever grateful.  And yes, they will think you rock!”

See, told you’d enjoy Chasity’s insight and sense of humor!  And, regarding that special portfolio of hers…check out just a few samples below…

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